What To Do When You (Actually) Notice Weird Stuff Happening? (2 Mistakes, 1 Best Response)

Got time and strength to notice the awe?

Sunlight streams through clouds over cityscape and cityscape.

I was introduced to the world of the weird (for lack of a better word) by my grandmother, a person everyone considered strong in her faith.

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I was a child.

My grandmother, a devout Catholic with no vocabulary for “hearing from the voice of God,” but instead an intuitive inner knowing that could not be verbalized, was bothered one evening. She told me that she had been thinking about her dear friend all day and could not get her friend out of her mind. She wasn’t sure why.

In the end, my grandmother decided to telephone her friend.

A phone call is a no-brainer for us, but phoning to talk was not done by my beautiful grandparents, who lived through the Great Depression. Phone bills at that time were calculated by the number of minutes spent on the line. Once, I called my mom from their house to ask her to pick me up, and my grandfather paced behind me, quietly cursing me under his breath in Italian (I knew THOSE words!) for taking four minutes to say what could’ve been said in two minutes. In his opinion, this was extreme wastefulness on my part! It would be another half hour before my grandmother could calm him enough for him and me to resume our card game.

And thus, my grandmother, fighting the same inner resolve against wasting money on an unnecessary phone call and listening to my grandfather pacing back and forth next to her, cursing, phoned her friend.

After my grandmother said a few compassionate words, she hung up the phone again. “Mrs. Cabianca found out today that she has cancer,” my grandmother informed us who were waiting near the phone.

Mrs. Cabianca was shocked by this diagnosis, as she was as healthy as a mule, or so she thought.

“That was weird,” I thought, staring at my grandmother.

I resumed playing cards with my grandfather, and my grandmother resumed washing the dishes, apparently unperturbed by this usual unusual occurrence. I guess this sort of thing wasn’t uncommon for her. But God had planted a small seed of faith in me that day.

Was there more?

What do you do with the “weird stuff” that you have heard about or (Heaven forbid!) has actually happened to you?

Do you:

  1. Brush it aside, assume THAT CANNOT BE, and go on eating your lunch and being distracted by the games on your iPad – I, for one, would never do that. Just sayin’. (If so, your ears are lying on the floor, friend. God wants to speak to you through them. Do you have the courage to try them on even for a few minutes? Then you can put them back on the floor again, until you are strong enough to try again.)1
  2. Do you hold one ear up to your head for an instant, and then quickly dispose of it, like bathwater? Even though your ear never QUITE touched your head, you ASSERT STRONGLY that THERE WAS NO SOUND. You know you are right. (I would never simply assume I’m right! Just sayin’.)
  3. Do you hold up your ear, and give it a listen? Do you shake out the cobwebs in your ear and in your head before giving it a go again tomorrow?

Are you longing to hear?

If so, I have great news for you, friend:

Those who are hungry and thirsty to be right with God are happy, because they will be filled.

Ancient Text

As the song below sings, “everything here ain’t quite what it seems, there’s more beneath the appearance of things,” plead with God to help you hear. That’s when the fun begins, friend. God, help us pick up the clues we stumble upon in this life, and help us want to find you and open the door to the greatest gift of all, you, Jesus.

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Photo Credits: Is That Heaven Opening? by Qiu MinFeng on Unsplash, Baby Birds Know How To Ask For Food! by Sandi Mager on Unsplash


1 That approach is just fine by the way! We are babes in these things, but if you are taking steps on our journey, however small, you can be sure God is pleased with you, friend. (Keep walking)

Are You A Forgotten Plant In An Old Pot, Too? Water For Your Beautiful Blossom Is Found Here

Got a few minutes to let the rain bring life to your heart’s seeds this Easter?

The amaryllis opened its two enormous blossoms this week, just before Easter, revealing pink and white splendor and raising the scent profile of the room to a higher level.

And I am that Amaryllis.

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Hack: Online Connection Actually Begins Tonight (Why Not Soar Together?)

Got time to learn to fly, friend?

This photo is me on the day I won FIRST PRIZE at the craft fair for the sunflower shirt I sewed! (See Footnote 11 for why I subtly placed that fact here). Oh! And I HAPPEN to be wearing that EXACT shirt today!

That is VERY auspicious for our online times together.

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I talked about it BEFORE. It’s finally happening, starting TONIGHT: online connection, finding our ears to learn to hear the nudges of God together, and tea.2

Note that no one needs to speak during the prayer (unless you want to). Oh! And stay afterwards for a connection time, to get to know each other, if you have a few minutes.

Why not?

Let’s learn to soar together, friend, as we practice connection with God.

Let’s journey together!

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Advice: Go To The Gym For This One Eye-Opening Reason (NOT Just To Work Out)

Ready to get both buffed AND mind-blowingly inspired, friend?

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We are serving up a previously published article for you to feast on, while our family is on spring break in Victoria, Canada (maturely, of course!), appreciating other people’s spring flowers.


My mouth hung open. I stared at the woman walking past me. It was not polite to stare (I know, okay!), but I forgot that my mouth was still hanging open.

I had just worked out at the gym. My muscles were getting EVEN stronger! For example, this time I didn’t have to go to the far edge of the gym to find lighter weights than the ones our instructor set out for the group class.

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Fix Your Broken Shopping Cart (And Life)! 3 Helpful Reasons Why

How much do you also simply tolerate, friend?

a black and white photo of a shopping cart

I was pushing my shopping cart in the grocery store. I was in a hurry (Of course!) and pushing more on one side because the thing kept veering off to one side as I walked, trying to smash into every aisle. “I. Only. Have. To. Get. A. Few. More. Items,” I grunted begrudgingly, pushing hard with both hands on one side of the cart.

I don’t want you to go through life like this. I thought I sensed God whispering in my heart.

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Spiritually Asleep As You Live Your Life? How To Awaken

And while we’re chatting, do you want another cookie and to join me in playing a game on my iPad, friend?

Man yawning widely with hands behind his head.

The sun peeked through the darkness.

city skyline under gray cloudy sky during daytime

The storm was lifting. Hope filled the air along with the fresh scent of life, stirring, awakening with the rain. It was a new season.

Today.

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I stretched, removed the covers from my bed and sat up, looking around me blankly. What would this new day, this new season bring, now that this storm was lifting, I wondered? I poured my coffee and asked these questions of God, and his whisperings startled me.

person holding white ceramic cup with hot coffee

There is so much in my life that He is longing to awaken. How about in yours?

Be alert, be present. I’m about to do something brand-new. It’s bursting out! Don’t you see it?

The Message

And how do we awaken, if we, like Sleeping Beauty, have been spiritually resting for a few years?

Try this: As the song below plays1 and as you sit with your morning coffee, pondering this new day or this new season, what stirrings in the dry soil of your heart, of seeds coming to life, do you sense?

Oh! And she sings of repentance in this song, but I wouldn’t recommend THAT or anything! In my humble opinion, there doesn’t seem to generally be any need to travel down any spiritual path as far as repentance would take us.

Please!

I definitely recommend turning back and hanging out with the rest of us who don’t want to walk THAT far! And anyway, the part of the song about repentance doesn’t apply to me, thankfully! (It may, however, apply to you, of course.)

True repentance [is] not merely . . . sorrow over sin, but . . . a “sweet sorrow” arising from a new, awakened delight in the beauty of God.2

John Piper – Desiring God

PS – I’m not sure exactly what John is talking about here, but it sounds deep, and it seems to fit, so I thought I would include it!

You’re welcome!

Good luck!

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Photo Credits Me! (Except I Look Different) by Vitaly Gariev on Unsplash, Is That Hope? by Etienne Boulanger on Unsplash, No! That’s NOT God Speaking! That’s Steam! by Clay Banks on Unsplash


1 She’s a little serious in this song. You’ll want to offer her a cookie and tell her, “Hey, Lady! Relax a bit!” (At least I do.) The point is that it’s good to wake up spiritually. She gets that part, so we can at least learn that bit from her!

2 And may you awake a little more with each poke repentance gives our sleeping form, friend.

Do You Hear The Birds? (Hack: How To Be Awakened Spiritually By Their Song)

Got time to watch the movie going on right next to you, friend?

A bird is perched on a thin branch.

The bird flitters from branch to branch.

It’s a yellowish green. It has yellowish-green feathers and a little white circle around its eye – a flycatcher. This family of birds has built its nest here for at least a dozen of its little bird generations, for as long as we have visited this summer cabin.

We didn’t notice them for the first few years.

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We only heard them, the little “Whew-it!” sound, rising at the end, every two minutes or so. “Just another bird sound,” we thought, eating our food at the outside table and distracted by the food and by each other. But that sound sure was insistent.

Could there be more to this incessant sound than just another bird flitting around nearby somewhere?

“Can you pass the peanut butter?”

And we forgot about them again.

Until the baby bird fell out of the nest that summer and flapped pathetically on the floor right beside our table outside.

“Whew-it! Whew-it!” We heard that same sound now, but more intensely, more insistently, louder.

It was the Father bird calling, imploring the little bird to stretch its wings, give flying a go, insistent now.

Our eyes had finally awakened to EXACTLY WHICH bird made that insistent sound, and was the nest far away? Directly above where the little bird was flapping, we finally noticed the obvious – a nest in the rafters just above us. The birds flitting above us as we ate our meals several times per day were the parents. They were doing their little bird jobs, telling the babies to wait a bit – they would bring more food once the scary demon humans had eaten their meals and finally cleared out. The birds were flitting and making noise above us as we were eating our meals.

A lot was going on that we didn’t have eyes to see until the unusual happened.

A baby bird flapped, and its Father called next to our feet as we ate our lunch that day.

And when we got up from the distractions of more food and of each other, and took a closer inspection at this bird, and then followed the clues to notice the bird’s nest above our heads, finally, we were awakened to a whole other world that had been going on right next to us for years.

And in precisely the same way, God wants us to open our eyes to see the realities of the spiritual dimension, happening right next to us every minute of our lives.

Sometimes we see something remarkable, something that makes us rub our eyes and say, “What now?” kind of like a baby bird flapping at our feet during breakfast.

Sometimes we hear a sound, repetitive and gentle, kind of like the “Whew-it!” sound of a flycatcher repeatedly calling to its young while we distractedly eat breakfast.

“What was that?” we wonder, but then all is quiet again, and maybe it’s just another bird in the trees doing who-knows-what, we think, returning to our breakfast cereal.

And so, how do we awaken to the physical and the spiritual unusual? We linger, we listen, we allow the questions of our soul to surface, and we watch a bit longer. We attach our ears, and we take off our blindfolds.

Then it’s a little easier for God to surprise us with the unusual.

The land you have given me is a pleasant land. What a wonderful inheritance!

Ancient Text

Got time to open the door, friend, have a cup of tea with Holy Spirit, and start an adventure?

Thanks for liking me! I like you too! – Proven HEREHERE, and HERE! Let’s journey together!

Photo Credit – There’s A Whole Other World Out There by Vijayalakshmi Nidugondi on Unsplash

Hack: Discover Your Identity In One Simple Habit

Come and sit by me, friend. There is someone who knows who you really are. (But it’s not me.)

Young woman looks at reflection in mirror outdoors

That time when I was discouraged, when I sensed God calling me into something new, something that made my knees quake, she said that when she prayed for me, she was reminded of something.

It was a picture of a dead plant.

The dead plant was me.

Well, there was a bit more as she explained it to me. The plant was in winter. All that could be seen were a few sticks for branches poking above the ground.

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A small bird's nest on a bare branch

Sounded like my life in that moment.

“But spring is coming,” she encouraged me.

I picked up my discouragement and continued walking on the ill-trodden path that God seemed to be leading me down, wondering if, sometime in the future, there would be life above the snow.

The word “establish” kept coming to my mind as I prayed. What needed to be established? Holy Spirit also seemed to be nudging me to write. Now, I had always written copiously in journals, but I would never think of sharing my written thoughts with others!

“Who would read such neurotic pretensions?” I asked myself. Certainly not me! I looked at my piles of completed journals, all of them unopened and unread, even by me.

Keep writing, God seemed to encourage me.

The first time I sat at my desk and tried to write something I intended to publish, it was like the seat of my office chair was on fire – It was so uncomfortable. I couldn’t sit there! Only a pompous, inflated prig would would presume she had something to say to another!

But it’s essential to fit in with others, so, of course, I pretended1 to be a pretentious know-it-all with an inflated ego so I would have something to write about!

And then I pressed publish.

The simple reality is that if you ever want to do anything significant for the Kingdom, you will have to overcome fear and internal resistance. If could be fear of the unknown, fear of what others will think2, fear of harm or injury3, fear of failure, fear that you’re not ready or equipped for the task. There is ALWAYS fear.

Craig Cooney In The Tension of Transition

And so, to return to the start of this article, “A winter season,” she had suggested that day.

“Establishing,” God had seemed to be whispering in my prayers. Establishing a habit of pressing “Publish” and letting my words be carried off on the wind. I was learning not to care what others thought about the things that deeply mattered to me.

I was learning to listen to His voice and to dance in joy with Him.

And when the amaryllisthe lilac, and the peony bloomed that spring after a decade or more of relative death, I looked back in awe at where He has been leading me.

And he reminds us that spring, the season of blooming and life, always follows winter, as we rest in Him.

Is this an establishing season for you, friend? May your roots grow deep as you trust that “if you’re not done working, God, I’m not done waiting,” as the song below sings. As the song below also sings, “Though the winter is long, even richer, the harvest it brings,” after a moment of silent reflection and thanksgiving, consider asking God, “What new thing are you trying to water in this season, God, and how can I best be obedient to Your gentle nudge in a new direction?

Oh, and the question is not so much, “Where will you go?” or “What will you do?” but “Who will you become?”

And so, what is a simple habit to find our identity? We obey His promptings from our prayer times. Then we wait and trust that life sprouts.

Because spring always comes with new life.

Just as rain and snow descend from the skies and don’t go back until they’ve watered the earth, doing their work of making things grow and blossom, producing seed for farmers and food for the hungry, so will the words that come out of my mouth not come back empty-handed. They’ll do the work I sent them to do, they’ll complete the assignment I gave them.

The Message

That’s it.

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Photo Credit: Who Are You, Anyway? (God Knows) by Alexander Mass on Unsplash, Self-Portrait (In That Season) by Stacy on Unsplash


1 Yes! I have been PRETENDING! Of course! What did you think I was doing?!

2 I would never fear that!

3 I definitely fear that, but thankfully, I am pretty safe at home writing on my computer in my safe little town in Canada with all the doors and windows locked! (Just in case.)

3 Common Mistakes That Immediately Make Your Spiritual Map Blurry

Sit by me, friend! Even if I forget to say something useful, we can have a great chat!

a person sitting on a bench in front of a painting

I looked out my window that day and saw something surprising in our overgrown “flower” patch.

This flower was so entangled in the weeds that I had to cut back the surrounding greenery to snap a photo.

I knew God was speaking through this flower and will explain why soon. But I also wondered, “What are You saying?” I felt confused, which is usually how I feel when Holy Spirit seems to be nudging.

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