
We attended our city’s annual carnival event. “Get me out of here!”, my brain screamed after only a few minutes.
One of the rides closed after a variety of kids vomited on it. The fair was too hot, too loud, too much garbage overflowing from the cans, junk food at every corner.
If this is one of the highlights of the year for our local kids, as it is for many, no wonder there is so much despair among youth.
We could smell pot as the older kids drifted past us.
If this is as good as it gets for our teens, it’s not very good.
Thankfully one of my kids, and her friend felt the same way.
We drove to a nearby nature park to the “Critter Day” event, to learn about local plants and animals.
It was much quieter. The wind blew through the trees nearby. The sounds were of muffled conversation and some hammers pounding softly as local kids assembled birdhouses.
I was enthralled as a scientist described a local insect that lays its eggs into a host’s body, which the larvae then feed on until it is time to hatch. He showed us the bug’s rear body part that was perfectly designed for this one bizarre behavior.
I was a bit distracted, looking elsewhere, while my daughter and her friend asked questions of the entomologist. They moved on.

“Are your kids homeschooled?” the entomologist asked me. “Huh? Oh yes. That’s my daughter’s friend and she is homeschooled too. Why do you ask?”
“I can always tell who the homeschooled kids are.”
“How?” I asked, intrigued.
“They ask questions and engage at a level of someone who is 40 or 50 years old.
I travel all around and see it time and again,” he continued. “The public school kids say, “Oh, bugs,” and move on, staring into their phones.
The public school kids don’t engage.”
I felt sad. “It’s quite a feat, isn’t it, that the public school system can stamp the love of learning out of children.”*
It dawned on me that this man was a Ph.D. type, definitely overqualified for conversations with Grade 3 kids. He had driven several hours, as a volunteer, to be there.
I was curious about what motivated him, and he unburdened his heart as we spoke.
“I’m really worried about the future of our society,” he continued.
“What do you do with kids who aren’t even engaged? But wherever I go, I find hope in the homeschooled kids. They are the ones asking questions, interested.
I travel to fairs hoping that kids are engaged with their natural world so they will be motivated to find solutions to the immense challenges we are facing as a culture.”
My eyes welled up.
Yes, how do we encourage kids to engage with the wonder of creation, so they may be motivated to protect this incredible biodiversity as unprecedented challenges face our culture?
Perhaps providing hope for our culture is another reason to consider homeschooling.
You got this, Mom, Dad.
Keep being a world changer, Mom, Dad, in your own, hectic, cleaning-eggs-off-the-floor way.
Every homeschooling day you make it through lends a bit more hope to our society.
Blogpost Footnotes
*The public school system is undeniably broken. This TED talk, for example, is the most popular TED talk of all time.
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