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Despairing? Focus On Cleaning Your Teeth (And More Right Thinking) To Be Surprised By Hope!

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Get our teeth cleaned or throw out everything good with the bathwater?

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Sometimes the bad things that happen to us (1) have a more straightforward solution than we realize, or (2) there is a silver lining of hope surprisingly close.

For example, that time I came back after three months in India and Nepal, my FRONT (!) teeth had a growing blackness to them. “Oh my goodness,” I thought. “I am rotting from the inside out!”

“Tea stains,” said the dentist.

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I did have a profound appreciation for Chai tea.

And so sometimes things aren’t as bad as we think.

Another time, I suddenly developed tooth sensitivity. My dentist had been warning me, asking me, “Do you feel sensitive yet in that particular area?” He told me I had root recession and that I would start feeling sensitive soon.

“There it is,” I thought that day. I didn’t bother going to the dentist because I knew this was coming. I thought, “Well, I guess I’ll have to suffer with this until I die!” I drank hot and cold drinks, and then most foods on one side of my mouth. When I finally went to the dentist months later, he said, “Oh wow, your filling fell out!”

He even repaired it for free because, I guess, it shouldn’t usually happen.

This filling was the best gift I ever got. A free filling! Well, the free filling wasn’t the gift.

The gift was a new lease on life.

I didn’t have to suffer for the rest of my life just because I was suffering a little now.

Older age wasn’t necessarily a slow march through increasing pain and suffering until we fall off the cliff.

We may need a new filling! Or we need the tea stains cleaned off our teeth! How can I not assume that my body is running towards hell and taking me with it as I get older?

What new aches and pains must be accepted, and which ones must be fought (or repaired or cleaned?)1

We may need to get our teeth cleaned or have a new filling placed. Or perhaps God will reach out his hand to heal, as many thousands have attested. But if the pain must be accepted, there’s always a hidden redemption in the pain if we know where to look.

That’s why we can be so sure that every detail in our lives of love for God is worked into something good.

The Message

As the song below sings “This is the refreshing”, consider asking God, Where have I allowed despair to cloud my judgment? Do I need to get my teeth cleaned, or find an alternative solution to this seemingly oversized or insoluble problem? How do You see this challenge that I am facing from Your heavenly perspective?

Will you give me the strength to weather the storm, Jesus?

(His answer is always yes.)

No test or temptation that comes your way is beyond the course of what others have had to face. All you need to remember is that God will never let you down; he’ll never let you be pushed past your limit; he’ll always be there to help you come through it.

The Message

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Photo Credit – Guy Choosing Easier Way Out Of His Problems by National Cancer Institute on Unsplash

1 As a not-unrelated aside, Canada has got it wrong with its steep descent into killing each other as the new, favorite way out of the pain.

Lies Exposed: 5 Important Gifts Can Emerge With A Little More Suffering

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Why not swap pain for something better, friend?

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At our prayer group, I whined1 about a new bunion I was developing.

At the end of the meeting, our Pastor told me he had a bunion, and when I saw it, it was a lot more advanced than mine. He shrugged his shoulders. He still goes for RUNS at age eighty-plus with a painful bunion and a bum knee.

Maybe a little pain is not the end of the world, as much we tend to believe.

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“Get over it,” he seemed to be hinting at me with his sparkling eyes. Maybe he’s right. Maybe we need to learn to live with a bit of pain, and this is not such a bad thing.

His perspective reminds me of the person twenty-five years younger than me that I work out with at the gym2.

She moaned about it being hard getting “older” because of the new aches and pains.

“Take heart!” I thought to encourage her. “ALL the aches and pains I had at her age are GONE!3

And sometimes, God even makes our bodies capable of healing from pain, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Who knows? For example, my friend offered the contact information of a specialist who helped her with her bunion.

Sometimes He gives us each other to help us find our healing.

Sometimes God simply touches us as we reach up our hand to Him and ask for this.

But in the meantime, how do we temper the storms of life as they come?

In this godless world you will continue to experience difficulties.

Jesus Christ in The Message

The (relative) good news is that:

Suffering may be our opportunity to become who our friends and family have always longed for us to become.

In fact, at least five gifts can emerge if we partner with the suffering4 in hope.

We can become:

  1. A little more empathetic,
  2. A little more humble,
  3. A little more thankful for the small things we take for granted,
  4. A little more capable with increased capacity to weather the inevitable storms of life (Or, a little “tougher” my outdoorsy Dad would have said),
  5. A little more willing to stop slapping Holy Spirit’s hand when He reaches out to comfort us.

Lord, help us to allow the suffering that we experience to transform us, we pray. Please help us bear the sufferings we all experience. When it becomes too great for us to bear, increase our connection to You, that You may comfort us and be our crutch to help us walk out our days with Your strength, we pray.

And may your time with bunions or your time immobilized in bed be productive, in a surprising sort of way, friend.5

You’re welcome!

Good luck!

Photo Credit – Thorns and Sunrise by Josie Weiss on Unsplash

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1 (Only slightly, okay?!)

2 Yes, that IS an impressive statement! Check out THIS article and THIS one to be even MORE impressed with my gym “buff-ness” (Or at least perseverance – same thing!)

3 I have a lot of new ones that are MUCH worse, but the point is, we don’t ALWAYS have to worry about keeping the pain we have!

4 I know that the beginning of a bunion forming example is (only a bit!) pathetic. For a less pathetic example of suffering, check out this article, when I could barely get out of bed for a month, for more thoughts on the possible redemption of suffering.

5 As outlined in the numbered statements above.

New Lessons I Learned After 29 Days Of Bed Rest

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Sometimes essential life lessons come in strange gift packages, no?

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The first week on bed rest1 wasn’t too bad.

I was initially hopeful that my body would figure itself out, my back would crack in the right direction, and I would be up and running in no time. I opened an office on my bed, barking orders at my homeschooled kid, and attending meetings online. I forgot to tell one male teacher why I was in bed during the online homeschooling call, which was embarrassing in retrospect.

But I’ve done more embarrassing things2 in good health.

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Does Your Heart Long For A Wonderful Gift? (Hope)

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Ah!!!

All of it – yuck! It clings to me, like a slime mold, slowly advancing. It climbs up my feet and legs, though I protest, holding my arms high in an effort to keep it away. I try to push it back, frantically, but it advances. The yellow goo, unfeeling, is slowly encapsulating me.

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Know You Need To Soar Instead Of Simply Watching Others Fly? 5 Tips When You Transition

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Recently, my husband and I took a course on transitioning with intentionality as we shift our priorities in a different life season.

The professor was Dr. Gordon Smith, who also writes on Substack HERE. However, please don’t mention that I sent you over there to him, as he may not agree with EVERY one of my life applications in this Newsletter, as I reflected on some of his comments. Plus, I wouldn’t want him to feel like I was showing him up! (I should humbly hint at.)

So if we want to live with intentionality, one thing we can do is read a book like this, which was required reading for our course. This book is entirely different from what I usually read. I typically read books on how to do things fast and faster!1

This book is different!

In one of the chapters (I forget which), Awakening Vocation hints that the book is intended for individuals seeking to discover meaning, purpose, and other similar goals. “Hey, sounds like me!” I thought. I’ve been trying to find meaning in life since the day I was born, but every time I pick up some old fluff on he ground that might be “meaningful,” it flies away on the wind again!2

And so, what did you learn, you ask us?

Oh, that part is easy!

Here are some of my scribbled sentences as I reflected on the content of that course:

  1. Our work is a participation in God’s work. Look around and ask, “What in the world are you up to, God?” (Application: I ask God that question a lot, so I am obviously very good at this! Just saying!)
  2. The more we do, the greater the impact we can make! (Application: The Professor may have meant this sentence as irony, but I forgot, and if so, I don’t fully understand what he’s getting at.)
  3. YOU are invited onto the stage into the drama of God’s redemptive work in this world. (Application: This part made me cry, but maybe that’s because I have always wanted people to clap for me on a stage and appreciate me and so forth. Wait. This tip is about God, I think, but it’s easy to mix up our ego with some of “God’s priorities” if we’re honest, don’t you find?)
  4. Let go of the need to control the outcomes of our work or endeavors. (Application: I’ve tried to let go of the need to control, but this is a LOT harder than it seems. So, if you skip this point, I don’t blame you.)
  5. We are always endeavoring to be in sync as much as we can with what God is calling us to do. (Application: YES! I GET this point! And God is calling me to write for some reason, and I am so excited to have coffee with you and get to know you better are we explore these ideas together – We will announce a regular Zoom connection time as soon as I am not so disorganized that I remember to look at my calendar and the commitments I’ve made, or at least when I stop watching so many movies at night!)

So friends, join us as we link our heads, hearts and spirits to the new priorities God is calling us to.

As the song below sings, “And I’ll search, I’ll search here for answers,” consider asking God, “Is the horizon of where you are asking me to walk towards further than I can see? Can you show me the next step?”

God, I pray that you help each one of us slow down and listen and then have the courage to fly into everything you are calling us to become as we press onwards, warmed by the light of the Son, we pray.

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But those who wait upon God get fresh strength. They spread their wings and soar like eagles

The Message

Photo Credits – How Does One Soar? by César Ardila on Unsplash, Eagle Shows Us How by Rachel McDermott on Unsplash

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1 In fact, the best advice I ever received is that rather than trying to read a book fast, decide whether you should read it at all! Now, I don’t bother reading so many books, and that’s how I know I’m efficient!

2 Anyone else feel this way? No? SHOW OFF!

Eyes And Mind More Open To The Surprising, Wonderful Gift Of Remembrance Day / Memorial Day?

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Today is Remembrance Day in Canada, also known as Veterans Day in the USA, and previously referred to as Memorial Day for a similar, earlier holiday.

The best thing about these days (all variations on the same theme) is that they force us to think about . . . wait for it . . . our own individual deaths.

(Sorry for saying it out loud. But good news follows! Keep reading!)

We are the Dead. Short days ago. We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, loved and were loved, and now we lie, in Flanders fields.

Canada’s famous Remembrance Day poem, In Flanders Fields by John McCrae

This thought is the one we close our eyes to and try to forget with movies, popcorn, and laughs with friends, and other healthy distractions.

This thought is one of the ones that bolts us awake at night just before we fall asleep with, “Oh yeah! I’m going to die!”

And then we frantically check our email and update our social media profiles to further distance ourselves from this thought.

“Oh! And what time is it?” Time to run off somewhere else and distract ourselves some more! But what if we sat with some tea and really had a good look at this irritating thing called “Death”?

For example:

  1. We are all rolling the dice every day, wondering if today is the day we meet our maker. Let’s add a little statistical reasoning to our end-of-life dice roll. Why not? What can it hurt? Try it HERE.
  2. Alternatively, we can wait until we are eighty-nine and a half years old to give the thought that “I will die someday” a little ponder, but I’m not sure that’s the best approach.
  3. A wise person thinks a lot about death. Why not swallow the fear and give end-of-life a little think-through, friend?

Oh! And I almost forgot to say that there is joy after the fear!

You’re welcome!

Good luck!

Listen carefully: Unless a grain of wheat is buried in the ground, dead to the world, it is never any more than a grain of wheat. But if it is buried, it sprouts and reproduces itself many times over. In the same way, anyone who holds on to life just as it is destroys that life. But if you let it go, reckless in your love, you’ll have it forever, real and eternal.

Jesus Christ – The Guy Almost 1/3 Of The People On Earth Claim To Follow1

Photo Credit – Me, Too, One Day? Right! I Almost Forgot! by Selena Morar on Unsplash

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1 The guy might we worth listening to sometimes!

Sick and Tired of Destroying Your Marriage? Two Unusual Phrases For A Better Way!

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Earlier this week, I offered some excellent1 marriage advice on how to laugh together (at others)! Here’s some more unsolicited marriage advice! You’re welcome! Good luck!

We were preparing our family to go skiing for the first time this year.

Only two people had mini meltdowns.

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Are Your Spiritual Eyes Closed? (Open Them If You Want To Hear More Remarkable True Stories Like This One)

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So, this is what happened that day several decades ago when the curtain was torn for me between the physical world and the supernatural world, and I finally began to see.

Because I finally began to believe.

I was seventeen years old at the time, travelling in Europe with my friend.

That day began like many others during that season as we rolled up our sleeping bags and left the hostel with a wave to the other youth travelers and set off on another day of adventure. This time, we were in Paris, a place I had longed to be for a long time. Years earlier, I studied the “Tour d’Eiffel and the L’Arc de Triomphe” from our sanitized classroom in Canada, the frigid winds blowing on the monotonous, nearly black-and-white landscape.

Not today!

We hiked up our fat, well-worn backpacks higher onto our backs. We pushed up our glasses and squinted, staring at everyone and everything as we passed, innocently looking away when we accidentally caught their eyes. This was our ridiculous effort to blend in with French culture as much as possible.

On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being “jubilant,” our combined average mood on this trip was a 10.5.

We were thrilled just to be there, and every crack in the sidewalk offered an opportunity to explore a new aspect of French culture.

Except for today.

Today, for some reason that I couldn’t pinpoint, my mood was objectively declining. From the people we passed, who seemed to glare at us menacingly (This definitely wasn’t the case, my friend worriedly assured me), to the landscape, which was donning hues more reminiscent of black-and-white, rather than the opulent, exciting colors that a new surrounding conjures, I was losing my exuberant mentality.

In fact, I was becoming downright weighed down by SOMETHING, some ominous feeling that grew heavier with each step towards the train station downtown.

Something was wrong.

What was going on?

My friend and I had carefully assured each other that if either of us ever felt the slightest bit uncomfortable while travelling, we would change course until we both felt at peace. No questions asked. In four months of travelling, feeling uncomfortable had never happened to either of us.

Except for today.

When our train pulled into the station, the feeling of ominous darkness grew within me until I finally blurted out, “I DON’T KNOW WHY BUT I CAN’T GET ON THAT TRAIN!”

“Okay, okay!” my friend assured me calmly, in a tone one would expect a Psychiatrist to use when talking someone down from a ten-story window ledge who plans to jump.

We sat in silence on the bench, watching our train depart. We didn’t speak, each looking in a different direction, my friend occasionally suspiciously glancing at me from the corner of her eye. Had I gone berserk?

After five, ten, and then fifteen minutes of sitting in silence, I felt the heavy feeling lift more and more.

After twenty minutes, I was about a seven out of ten on our “Jubilant Mood Meter” and climbing.

What had just happened?

“Look, I’m sorry,” I offered. “I have no idea what that was about.” My friend looked relieved that I had re-found my sanity and breathed an audible sound of relief. “Let’s just catch the next train.”

Which we did.

About one hour into that train ride, our train suddenly stopped mid-track. There were no stations for a long time. My friend and I looked at each other quizzically.

An announcement came over the train’s speakers, stating that the train ahead of us had been involved in an accident and that we would have to wait for a while.

Our eyes grew big.

But my heart also expanded that day, until it was big enough to fit God inside.

That experience was like a North Star within me, too precious to speak aloud. I shared this story with only a handful of people for the first few decades. Why?

Who would have believed me anyway?

(Except you, of course.)

Be prepared to hear many more stories like this, friend, as we open our eyes.

Faith is to believe what you do not yet see; the reward for this faith is to see what you believe.

Saint Augustine in Confessions

As the song below plays, consider asking God how you may have accidentally let Jesus pass you by.

Photo Credit – Why Open Our Eyes? by Anita Jankovic on Unsplash

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Life Wisdom And Advice! Let Them Laugh At You Now So You Can Laugh At Them Later!

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He was still in his pajamas (I’m not even lying).1

He hadn’t yet combed his hair. He was sucking back coffee in the car on the way there. He didn’t have his water bottle. He had forgotten it. But he didn’t even realize that yet.

He was still waking up.

I, on the other hand, was a whole different story.

I drank no coffee, but pre-hydrated with lemon water, and I did everything else right (as usual). My pre-stretching routine began precisely fifteen minutes before we arrived. The checklist of items to be completed the night before was all checked off with my tidy little tick marks. My kale and mango smoothie was waiting for me in the fridge for a quick after-exercise snack. My day’s clothes were laid out and waiting, so I could make a fast transition from caterpillar to butterfly, as my husband said.

(Wait – what DOES that mean?! Caterpillar?! Now I’ll have to be mad at him to establish the power balance in the correct ratio!)

But we’re not talking about that.

We’re talking about people laughing at you. And by laughing at you, I literally mean “you” or “my friend” and definitely not “me”. Wanted to be very clear about that.

And now: the person to laugh at. My friend – we’ll call him Jim.2

He forgot his rain jacket, and we had to park away from the gym. So it was pretty rough that five minutes ago, he was asleep, and then he’s standing outside in the rain in his pajamas, waiting for the gym to open, and trying to slug back enough coffee not to accidentally murder those standing around us.

However, in six months, when he can do the fireman carry, which scientists have proven is directly correlated to overall well-being, and they can’t then who’s laughing now?

Or when he’s in a rocking chair, but he had two more years of being able to move a suitcase and put it in the overhead bin on a plane, and to stay in his own home longer (Yes, the goal as we age is to delay old folks’ homes); then who’s laughing now?

When we’re sitting next to each other in rocking chairs, but we’ve got one more year living at home because we worked out at the gym every morning for ten years, who’s laughing now?

Somehow, I’m already anticipating laughing at little (older) men and ladies in rocking chairs. How did I end up there? Well, let’s not think too much about the ethics of all of this or your maturity level to take this approach.

The point is, LET THEM LAUGH!

GO AHEAD! Show up at the gym in your pajamas with unkempt hair and having forgotten your water bottle! Let them laugh!

But when the rocking chairs come out, baby, HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

My husband and I will laugh at you.

Guaranteed.

(Unless you, too, are willing to be laughed at with us now!)

Come on! Join a gym! Let them laugh at you!

And while you’re at it, there are other ways to be laughed at with similar benefits in later years:

Ask the hard questions you have about God.

Even though you assume NO ONE EXCEPT YOU has ever thought deeply about these issues, such as:

  • How can there just be only ONE true religion?
  • How could a good God allow suffering?
  • How can a loving God send people to hell?

You’ll realize that multiple groups of people have completed their PhDs on every one of your questions3, and there is probably a bit more to think about with each of these topics than you may have realized at first glance, which will make you feel stupid.

But remember what we learned!

Feel stupid now so you won’t feel QUITE as stupid later!

Be willing to look like an idiot now so you won’t look so stupid when you stand before God naked and without cultural gold stars after you die!

God is SO pleased that you are TRYING.

He’s holding out his arms and waiting for you.

(And He won’t even laugh at your mistakes, like I will!4)

Photo Credit – This photo is from Unsplash, but I couldn’t find the exact link at the moment. (I AM very organized of course! Read the FIRST BIT of this article to prove that!)

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1 To his credit, his pajamas looked a bit like sweatpants, but that ruins the point of this article if I point out EVERY detail like that! Also, he had his gym shorts on under his pajamas, but I didn’t notice that at first, so that doesn’t count.

2 (Because my husband was starting to go to the gym that day, so that’s why I called my husband “Jim”.)

3 For answers to 99.01% of modern people’s questions about God, try Tim Keller’s Reason for God. Every question listed here is discussed with unusual frankness and a disproportionate amount of depth of insight in this book, for example.

4 Don’t take it personally. Life is more fun when we laugh at ourselves and others. (Yes, at you, too). You’re welcome! Good luck!

Turning Over A New Leaf After An Eye-Opening Halloween?

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So previously we talked about what parts of demonic culture we SHOULD TRY to incorporate into our lives.

So, this time, we’ll talk about  – EW! GET that Satanic stuff OUT of your life, for heaven’s sake! Why the back and forth of recommendations? Well, you never know what’s true anymore on the internet so it’s essential to use our critical thinking skills at ALL times!

Constant vigilance!

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